i’ve never been bother with my age ( I always feel young ) and the fact that I’m also not in a relationship which seems to bother a lot of people, weird.. recently I talked with a friend and the same question popup , “ Do you have a boyfriend already?” in which the answer is still the same .. NONE.. then she blurted out WHAT?? you are getting old, get one.. Hello!!! its not something you can pick out  in the supermarket or department store hehehehe

well i never did notice my age, till they mentioned the age of their kids, “oh she is already a year and a half, the last you visited here, she was still a few weeks old…“  darn am a year older already, then their  is also the fact the my friends seems to be getting married..which brings back another conversation from another friend.

friend: are you married?

ideru: no

friend: why?

ideru: ( wondering how the heck to answer this kind of question!!!) hmm, i guess not yet time??

friend: oh you should get married soon and have kids

ideru: (still don’t know how to respond without hurting friends feeling).. ahh ok ill think about it.

wahhhhh .. that is why i rarely appear online on my ym, to avoid getting this questions.. in denial eh, well not really, its just so tiring to repeat myself again and again and again. My parents are not even pressuring me and im the eldest, anyway to my friends who keep asking this question, don’t worry so much about my marital status, am happy the way i am right now. I may become a spinster and die as one, but that is not the point here, the point is Im living the way I want to live. OK , ja ijou da ne

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